Nelson Rolihlahla
Mandela affectionately known as Madiba turns 95 years today. He
may be in hospital but this man has the spirit of a warrior. Mandela is one of
our great reminders of perseverance, courage, grace, forgiveness, and a love of
freedom and humanity so great it will burn long after he is gone. His
ability to rise above his conditions, to stay positive and
remain focused His dignity, humility and character is a model for
everyone. His total lack of bitterness, Mandela embraced his enemies with love.
He is known for his powerful words, such as, “There is no time to be bitter -
there is work to be done.”
Madiba is a man who knows that any real change starts from
within, a true leader. Life and its problems is a continuous struggle and the
words of this fine gentleman sum it up, “after climbing a great hill, one only
finds that there are many more hills to climb...There is no easy walk to
freedom anywhere, and many of us will have to pass through the valley of the
shadow of death again and again before we reach the mountaintop of our
desires.” As we fight our passions more obsessions will crop up, as we fight
for a world of peace more conflict will emerge, hence we should be prepared to
fight.
Change within himself led to the great leader that is Mandela. His incredible
power as a ‘transformational’ leader came in part through the demonstration of
change within himself. Prepared for the presidency by 3 decades in prison and a
lifetime resistance against oppression and injustice, he acquired a stalwart,
inspiring moral and spiritual courage that enabled him to rise above the hate
and recrimination that was so deeply embedded in the apartheid system of his
country. He led from his inner strength and offered to all the people a vision
of moral reconstruction to guide South Africa’s future, “if there are dreams
about a beautiful South Africa, there are also roads that lead to their goal.
Two of these roads could be named Goodness and Forgiveness,” he went to say. He
by no doubt built these two roads in his own heart first.
Mandela is a leader no prison cell, no intimidation, no threat could silence. A
man whose belief in the future was so powerful that not even near 30 years
behind bars and barbed wire could destroy his dream that millions could be
free. His charisma, self-depreciating sense of humour and lack of
bitterness over his harsh treatment explains why for millions of people around
the world, Nelson Mandela stands, as no other living figure does, for the
triumph of dignity and hope over despair and hatred, of self-discipline and
love over persecution and evil.
This Mandela is a unsophisticated
construction: a good man that fought unspeakable injustice in the form of
racial oppression. He reconciled with and forgave what was essentially
undeserving oppressors, and won a democratic and multi-racial future for South
Africa. “Struggling is the way I live”, are Mandela’s words that are related to
South African struggle against tyranny. However for Madiba, the real meaning of
life struggle was to overcome obstacles, to hope for something more, and to
challenge yourself. In his struggle, Mandela discovered his greatest strength
and his country.
Let us contemplate his example as we
face so many seemingly insuperable problems and the power and wealth that
always seem to stand in the way of liberty and transformation. These simple
words of Mandela have a weight and a legitimacy few others could grant them:
“It always seems impossible until it’s done.” It’s my argument that Mandela
really is remarkable, and that much of the fuss about him is warranted. Not
because he is a saint. But because his personal narrative is such a powerful
human story of redemption. And stories are powerful. Stories help us make sense
of the world. They carry emotional weight. We remember them.
Mandela is a great character, somebody
with flaws and human desires, someone with whom we can identify, we too have
our flaws so he has shown us that we can overcome them. He changed from
young firebrand to agent of peace and reconciliation. And through it he changed
South Africa. Mandela is a remarkably positive individual. He believes that
people are actually good, and he is right we are. He also has a keen
understanding of human nature, and unlike most leaders in our world, he has
immense self belief freeing him to interact in ways other politico have not
been able to.
Madiba dedicated a good part of his
life to groom himself into the mould of leadership, and was always mindful of
his strengths and weaknesses in his public role. It was a huge but worthy
investment he made. His prison years played a key role in his transformation,
he apparently went in emotional and headstrong, and walked out balanced and
disciplined. In his own words: “I came out mature.” He took to knowing his
adversaries very well, a master tactician, who always played to his strengths,
understood gray areas like no other, compromised without giving much away,
adapted well at every turn life took. And that is a very interesting insight,
because a good leader is really, really smart at the core with a genuine shell
of humanness. While the humane qualities endear him to the masses, the
smartness ensures that he does well in the leadership position.
Mandela’s life is an excellent example
to a lot of people who aspire to lead people, especially when they have no
chance of leadership being thrust upon them. Being a leader is certainly hard
work, but there are many lessons one can learn from the greats.
- Ashley Mwanza
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